Do you believe in love at first sight? Is there such a thing, or would it be lust at first sight, can you really fall in love with someone with out knowing anything about them? Have you ever met anyone whom your soul is attracted to, a person in which the force between you is so strong, being apart is agony?
I have pondered this question numerous times from my own experiences as well as those who confide in me to ask is there such a thing as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT??.
Here is a little story for you...My husband and I met 2years before we started dating. I went to a New Year's party with one of his friends (who I was kinda dating, I use the word dating loosely since there was not much going on). I was introduced to my now husband in a quick passing, I vaguely remember meeting him; however for the next two years he never forgot about me. To this day he remembers what outfit I was wearing, the way I wore my hair and a the scent of my perfume, most of all he says he remembers my eyes and my lips. According to him they seduced him and he fell in love with me at first sight.
Two years later, my cousin and I were walking into to a local bar for a cocktail and she had been talking about this guy she was friends with, I asked her what was wrong with him, she said nothing, I replied then why not date him? She said, he was handsome, charming, funny but there was no connection. As we were walking to the door a handsome gentleman was entering from the opposite side, we both came to a halt and our eyes were locked. I swear my heart skipped a beat.
No more than a few seconds later my cousin said to me, this is ****, the guy I was telling you about, I thought to my self HOT DAMN, if she is not interested I am, except that it was not cut and dry, I was dating someone at the time. We only spent an hour or so chit chatting then I had to leave. Something stronger than any force I have ever known kept bringing us together, because after that I ran into him all the time. On our third encounter he boldly asked me to marry him...TRUE STORY!
We were at a friends house for a small gathering and were asked to run to the store and pick up a few items, so I drove while he went with...on our way to the store(he would not stop talking), he asked me to marry him, I think his exact words were, "You are a beautiful woman, who knows what she wants and where she is going, I want to make sure all your dreams come true, Marry me and be my wife"? Seriously, this was our third encounter and he didn't even know my favorite color and he wanted to marry me....Lust or Love...I will leave that up to you to decide!
Have you ever found or been in LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, please do tell???