Thursday, November 5, 2009

What A Girl Wants

A few months ago, I came across a FABULOUS blog WhenHeKissesHerPassionsRoar. What drew me to this blog was the intensity of the writers way to capture her emotions. One of the very first posts I read was "40Things I May Never Say, But Want". I was in love, the idea of writing down and sharing with your lover what it is that you want...why didn't I think of that???

As I started to prepare for Naughty November, one of the suggested titles from a fellow FABULOUS Blogger Alicia(Holla) was to write about "WHAT A GIRL WANTS" or something along those lines. I attempted to write about it, but kept thinking back to the amazing post I had read by Desi. So I wrote her a quick note asking if I could share her work with you...she graciously agreed, so here it goes. Please do visit her, I have included her link above..and let her know I sent ya!!

40 Things I May Never Say, but Want:

1. Come grab me at my waist.

2. Have a conversation with me.

3. Share your secrets with me.

4. Give me your shirt, I like to wear it when you aren’t around.

5. Kiss me whenever and wherever, slowly at first and then passionately.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug me tight.

7. Hold me.

8. Laugh with me, at me!

9. Take me somewhere I have never been.

10. Let us hangout with our friends together.

KEEP READING ...

11. Smile at me, with me.

12. Take my pictures often and randomly.

13. Pull me onto your lap.

14. When I say I love you more, deny it. Fight back.

15. When my friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug me tight. It makes me feel more naughty.

Are you still with me? I might never repeat this?

16. Hug me and say ‘I love you’ whenever you see me.

17. Kiss me unexpectedly.

18. Yes, please me from behind around the waist.

19. Tell me I am beautiful. It never is enough.

20. Tell me the way you feel about me.

You need to do to show me you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for me, walk me to the car – it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman. Men are essentially non-existent.

22. Tell me I am your everything – only if you mean it.

23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask me – if I deny, it means I DON’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT – so just hug me.

24. Make me feel loved.

25. Kiss me in front of OTHER girls you know! I want to make your girlfriends jealous.

I MIGHT DENY IT BUT I ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE ME ..

26. Don’t lie to me please.

27. DON’T cheat on me please.

28. Take me ANYWHERE but take me with you.

29. Text message or call me, even if it to tease me, I love your voice.

30. Be there for me, even if I say I don’t need you. Everytime I count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.

31. Hold me close when I am cold so I can hold you too for warmth.

32. While in the movies, put your arm around me.

33. Don’t ever tell me to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If you are upset just don’t tell me off, I can keep quiet too.

REMEMBER I MEAN WHAT I SAY, no HIDDEN meanings..

33. When people diss me, can you stand up for me?

34. Lay down under the stars and put my head on your chest so I can listen to the steady beat of your heart.

35. When walking next to each other grab my hand.

36. When you hug me, Boldhold me in your arms as long as possible.

37. Comfort me when I cry and wipe away my tears.

38. Take me for long walks at night.

39. Always remind me of how much you love me and need me and want me.

40. I ALWAYS WANT TO KNOW I AM LOVED. AND I KNOW THIS SEEMS REPETITIVE BUT I REALLY WANT YOU TO LISTEN TO MY SILENCE, LIKE I WILL LISTEN TO YOURS AND UNDERSTAND THAT WHATEVER YOU DO, YOUR LOVE FOR ME AND MY LOVE FOR YOU, WILL ALWAYS KEEP US TOGETHER!

I hope you enjoyed this list as much as I did...what would you tell your lover or future lover you want?? Sometimes, needs and wants just need to be told!!

Make it a GREAT DAY!!
Smooches,
Sassy Chica

26 comments:

Ms. Wanda said...

What a list!!! I am going to get a note pad and start my own today:) I don't even know where to start!
I've been married now for 12 years and we've been together for 17 soooo, right now the first thing that comes to mind would be, take out the garbage without me asking for a change!!! I know I got a lot of work to do, right?:)

xoxox
Ms. Wanda

Americanising Desi said...

thank so much hunz :)

Betty Manousos:cutand-dry.blogspot.com said...

Love that list. But i think Ms Wanda is right.
hugs hugs

Ria said...

Wow!!that was an awesome list hun. So loved it and its jus so true. This is indeed what a gurl wants. :)

Tammy Howard said...

Yep. Tell me I'm pretty, even when I'm not. Look at me like you mean it. Mean it.

Good list.

Alicia said...

ohhh i LOVE that!! FABULOUS post!! i'm so glad she let you post her list! i'm totes forwarding this to the hubs....its always good to send a little reminder! love you lady, hope you're doing amazing!! i can't wait to see what else you come up for naughty november!

Susan said...

gorgeous!
I would say a lot of these things... in my previous relationships I have learnt that I should say anything that might make things better and should keep anything that wouldn't make me or him feel better.
I stick to this :))
have a lovely day, xoxo

The SSS Sophisticate said...

Every guy should have to read that! LOVED this post!

Andi said...

What a great list - it is fabulous!

Sherri @ Luv a Bargain said...

Oh my gosh..I love that so much! I can't believe how right it is.

Rosie said...

Love this list! #33 is a deal breaker. If he doesn't do it, dump him!

Maggie said...

That is awesome and a good reminder! Sometimes we just forget to do certain things for people!

Archana said...

Americanising Desi is amazing, I love her blog. :) It's always filled with fabulous insights into the mind of a woman! And this list is amazing x100. <3

Lora said...

I love this :0)

Miss Always Carried Away said...

I know this one! ohh yes our creative and very romantic AD! it's so nice you rebloged her!

Of course I will write for you!!! I even sent you an email? Did you get one? Darling I'll send you tomorrow! It's such a pleasure to write for you!!! I'm over the moon!

Chanda @ The Eco-Cheap Mom said...

Great list! Must have hubby read it...although sometimes men just don't get it, no matter how many times you tell them something. Gotta love them anyway!

Americanising Desi said...

i think i m flying off to the moon :D
thank you Sassy Chica :)

and thank you all for appreciating this so much

Encore Bride said...

It melts my heart to say that I don't even have to ask, I already have almost everything on this last (everything I care for anyway). It took me 8 yrs (after my divorce) to find him but I'm so glad I did!!!

Unknown Mami said...

All very reasonable.

Mine would include:

Remember you love me even when you are mad.

Offer me the last bite of your favorite dessert. I might say no, but it means a lot to me that you offered.

Smile when you think of me and I'm not around.

Lady snow said...

Hi,I like that list and your blog!:)
Good weekend to you!

Jewels Diva said...

Wow, not sure what else to say but, wow!

AmandaEbokosia.COM said...

Hey Sassy Chica!

I loved this list--
So much so that I think I'll try it as an activity for my beau and I. Thank you for sharing it with us! Also, I'm happy to be a new member of your site:)

MaryRC said...

oooh shes good, there are theings on that list that i want that i didnt know i wanted...

Goth Girl said...

only if men understood the real us. it isnt so difficult is it?

Sami said...

Am I the only man in here? now I feel so uncomfortable with fingers pointing at me :(

AD does it all beautifully and she knows what a woman wants is what she rightly deserves.

Wishing all you ladies get your unsaid desires fulfilled :)
AMEN

Missy said...

I actually have told my husband some of these things and he just doesn't seem to get it or how important they are. Maybe someday.


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