Friday, December 4, 2009

Have You Ever




Have you ever wanted someone, so much you wish for them with all your being? Have you ever yearned for someone, so much it hurts? Have you ever desired someone to the point that you wonder, if you can live with out them?

I love getting emails from my readers, I welcome any questions you may have...if I don't have the answer, I will do my best to find one or post your question and let some Sassy readers weigh in on their thoughts. Just the other day a Sassy reader sent me a thought provoking email asking the difference between love and lust??
In my opinion, Love takes time, Lust is instant, Love involves the meeting of the mind, heart body and soul, Lust is a physical emotion, Love is when you care about your mates well being, lust is when you want to feel the being.

I once read, True Love is neither physical nor romantic, true love is acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be. (author unknown).

Please do share your opinion on the difference of Love and Lust, us Sassy readers would love to know???

mwah-mwah
SMOOCHES,
Sassy Chica


19 comments:

Andi said...

I think true love is the unconditional love of someone. Lust is 100% physical.

(The Obnoxious SAHM) said...

i likey

Sassy Chica said...

Andi...I agaree true love must be unconditional!

Nahl said...

Love this.

Betty Manousos:cutand-dry.blogspot.com said...

I totally agree with your opinion about love.
So innovative post! Love it!!!
Have a really great week-end!
love and
hugs hugs

Sassy Chica said...

Nahl, so glad you stoped by to visit and comment:)

Betty-good to know that someone can agree with my opinion!

Smooches Chicas!!!!

Kristin said...

It was lust at first sight with the hubs...it was love when I knew without a doubt that I could always count on him. Five years lady we still have both!

ModernMom said...

Lust may bring you together, but love is what gets you through.
Great post.

Melissa aka Equidae said...

in love you have to work at it tio keep it going in lust its the physical that matters!

Miss Always Carried Away said...

I so agree with you love takes time and we need to work on it every day to make it last. Lust... we all love lust right??? especially lust in love:) But I don't believe in love without lust or passion and being in love, you know what I mean... you can love but still not be IN LOVE! That is a huge difference! I wouldn't be able to accept this kind of love! I need PASSION!!!!

And YES I know this feeling VERY GOOD!!!

Susan said...

oh yes I have...
gorgeous post, darling!
have a lovely day, xoxo

Unknown Mami said...

Two sides of the same coin.

Ria said...

yes i wud agree with u on this one. Really given the difference between love and lust very well!

Mommakin said...

Both sure are nice...

Love can survive without lust, but lust cannot survive without love.

Barry said...

Perhaps it can be said with lust you ache for someone with every part of your body. The heart may or may not be involved depending on the type of attraction you feel towards that person.

With love the heart leads and the body follows.

Sassy Chica said...

Kristin-ooh-la-la..love at first sight...that's some HOT stuff!!

Modern Mom- I agree with you 100%, LOVE IS A MUST!!

Melissa...Love is somthing you choose(and it takes a constant effort), Lust happens!

Thanks for your opinions Chica's..I am so happy you stopped by and hope you will be back to comment soon!

Sassy Chica said...

Deva-I think that lust is the sexy part of love and it is what hooks ya...makes you want more...makes your liver quiver!!

Susan-thanks for commenting darling..I hope most have felt love and lust and liked it!!

Unknown Mami-two sides it is...heads or tails, either way it is usually a win!

Ria-I am so happy you agree, we are all so different with different views and from different backgrounds, I am happy I found a few that think like me!

Barry- I loved your comment, oh so true!

Thanxs for visiting...please feel free to send me any questions you may ponder, I love putting them out there for others to comment!!

mwah-mwah
SMOOCHES
SASSY CHICA

Momakin-I wouldnt want to survive without either!

Suree said...

i think one can find the difference once they fall in love.

Once u feel the True love, u will automatically know the difference...

I am yet to feel the differences .:P

Sassy Chica said...

Hello Suree-Thanks for commenting...I agree with you, once must have already felt both to know the difference, even though at times lust may feel like love...