What A Girl Wants

A few months ago, I came across a FABULOUS blog WhenHeKissesHerPassionsRoar. What drew me to this blog was the intensity of the writers way to capture her emotions. One of the very first posts I read was "40Things I May Never Say, But Want". I was in love, the idea of writing down and sharing with your lover what it is that you want...why didn't I think of that???

As I started to prepare for Naughty November, one of the suggested titles from a fellow FABULOUS Blogger Alicia(Holla) was to write about "WHAT A GIRL WANTS" or something along those lines. I attempted to write about it, but kept thinking back to the amazing post I had read by Desi. So I wrote her a quick note asking if I could share her work with you...she graciously agreed, so here it goes. Please do visit her, I have included her link above..and let her know I sent ya!!

40 Things I May Never Say, but Want:

1. Come grab me at my waist.

2. Have a conversation with me.

3. Share your secrets with me.

4. Give me your shirt, I like to wear it when you aren’t around.

5. Kiss me whenever and wherever, slowly at first and then passionately.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug me tight.

7. Hold me.

8. Laugh with me, at me!

9. Take me somewhere I have never been.

10. Let us hangout with our friends together.

KEEP READING ...

11. Smile at me, with me.

12. Take my pictures often and randomly.

13. Pull me onto your lap.

14. When I say I love you more, deny it. Fight back.

15. When my friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug me tight. It makes me feel more naughty.

Are you still with me? I might never repeat this?

16. Hug me and say ‘I love you’ whenever you see me.

17. Kiss me unexpectedly.

18. Yes, please me from behind around the waist.

19. Tell me I am beautiful. It never is enough.

20. Tell me the way you feel about me.

You need to do to show me you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for me, walk me to the car – it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman. Men are essentially non-existent.

22. Tell me I am your everything – only if you mean it.

23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask me – if I deny, it means I DON’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT – so just hug me.

24. Make me feel loved.

25. Kiss me in front of OTHER girls you know! I want to make your girlfriends jealous.

I MIGHT DENY IT BUT I ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE ME ..

26. Don’t lie to me please.

27. DON’T cheat on me please.

28. Take me ANYWHERE but take me with you.

29. Text message or call me, even if it to tease me, I love your voice.

30. Be there for me, even if I say I don’t need you. Everytime I count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.

31. Hold me close when I am cold so I can hold you too for warmth.

32. While in the movies, put your arm around me.

33. Don’t ever tell me to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If you are upset just don’t tell me off, I can keep quiet too.

REMEMBER I MEAN WHAT I SAY, no HIDDEN meanings..

33. When people diss me, can you stand up for me?

34. Lay down under the stars and put my head on your chest so I can listen to the steady beat of your heart.

35. When walking next to each other grab my hand.

36. When you hug me, hold me in your arms as long as possible.

37. Comfort me when I cry and wipe away my tears.

38. Take me for long walks at night.

39. Always remind me of how much you love me and need me and want me.

40. I ALWAYS WANT TO KNOW I AM LOVED. AND I KNOW THIS SEEMS REPETITIVE BUT I REALLY WANT YOU TO LISTEN TO MY SILENCE, LIKE I WILL LISTEN TO YOURS AND UNDERSTAND THAT WHATEVER YOU DO, YOUR LOVE FOR ME AND MY LOVE FOR YOU, WILL ALWAYS KEEP US TOGETHER!

I hope you enjoyed this list as much as I did...what would you tell your lover or future lover you want?? Sometimes, needs and wants just need to be told!!

Make it a GREAT DAY!!
Smooches,
Sassy Chica

Seduce Yourself

Happy Hump Day Sassy readers!!! Hot Damn, we are one day closer to the weekend!! I hope you have enjoyed your week & Naughty November, thus far!! I am still a bit on the fence on how risque I dare to be this month...so I am gonna give it my all and you tell me what you think!

After pondering for a bit about what to share with you today, I thought why not share a saucy secret....one that is near and dear to me. Drum roll please, "SEDUCE YOURSELF"! Yes, you read right...seduce yourself!!!

Make Wednesdays your night(schedule some much deserved ME time). Indulge in a glass of wine(or tea), take a bubble bath, give yourself a well deserved manicure/pedicure, relax with a good book...what ever it is, dedicate time to yourself. We all live such busy lives and before we know it, another week is gone, months pass and we never took time out to "Seduce Ourselves". Make yourself a priority and schedule some "Me" time today to love yourself, pamper yourself, indulge in yourself...(On a sidenote...where the heck is the right side column on my blog(maybe u can see it and I can not); I have no clue what happened that it disappeared. If you are NEW Sassy reader, WELCOME!!! I would love for you to join my Fabulous Followers, to do so please click on the "About this blog" at the top of this page and column will show up. If you are tech savvy and can assist...all comments are welcome.)

It would not be Wednesday with our our weekly weigh in. Awe ya, even after last weekends crazy Halloween festivities, this Chica managed to lose half a pound. Which is great even though I now have

I took my measurements this morning, which is always nerve wrecking and to my sweeet surprise I have lost 3+ inches in my chest, waist, leg and arm...bow-chika-bow-wow!!
I see a shopping spree in my future and this picture below confirmed it...check it!!

Enjoy your HUMP DAY...what will you do to seduce yourself today?

Smooches,
Sassy Chica

P.S-be sure to check in tomorrow...I have some hot stuff coming through from a guest blogger which I adore!!

Do You Have Game?

SERIOUSLY???? If a guy or girl came up to you and blurted out: Hey Baby,

What would you say??? What would you do?? What would the reaction on your face be?? Would your heart dance, go pitter patter or your blood boil!

I have been out of the dating scene for many years, yet, I live vicariously though my single friends, as they share with me some of their ridiculous happenings. So like the good blogger I am, I reach for my handy dandy pink leather diary and take notes; knowing that "I am so Blogging this".

As a woman, I am going to share a secret with you men....most women love sweet talk, it may get you everywhere with them. Let's be honest Chica's, who doesn't like to be woo'd and honey, babied?? However when there is a sense of ridiculous in the tone, it makes one wonder, if that person is for real or just that big of an idiot!

Here are a few of the pick up lines that I recall hearing, I don't suggest using them, as most are cheezy!!

-Mwah, my compliments to the chef Baby, because you are delish!
-What's your sign?
-You had me at hello... (not even original, that was from a movie)!
-What would you like for breakfast?
-Sex is a killer, wanna die happy?
-I think you would make a great wife, marry me?
-Did you wash your pants in Windex,I can see myself in them.
-Did it hurt when you fell from Heaven??
-I can see my future children in your eyes.

Let me tell you a quick story, about a person I met (long ago), who I thought was the cat's meow and had game.

But, before I proceed, let me just say that both guys and girls have game and to briefly define game is "to say and do all the right things at the right times, to obtain what you want".

Now, back to my story...Once upon a time, I met this fine looking peron, who seemed to be fabulous, until the initial thrill passed, then I realized (after somewhat investing my heart)that this person turned out to be a dud, what a disappointment! With little to no personality and somewhat condescending. Here is the lesson I learned: just because a prospect may have a great pick up line and look yummy, get to know them before you invest your heart!

Now, its your turn, what are some of the best and worst pick up lines you have heard or used. And if you were to rate yourself...Do you have game???

Smooches,
Sassy Chica

P.S-for all those wondering if this Sassy Chica has game, the answer is YES!

Adios, October

Oooh wee....October came and went in a hot second! Where does the time go??? It is with an open heart and mind that I welcome Naughty November...bow-chika-bow-wow!! Thanks to some suggestions from some of my sassy and saucy bloggy buddies, I am bringing it in November! Please note, not every post will be naughty, but I am working on a handfull!

After looking back at my October posts, all I could think of was blah, blah, blah...what a bore! If you are anything like me than you love to read the juice and live vicariously through others...well, Sassy Readers that is what we are going to do this month...no subject is off limits (okay, well only the ones that make me blush and not much makes me blush).

Hot Damn, I have a few tricks up my sleeve, but here is what I am asking from you...What do you want to talk about, what do you want to read about, what do you like to read and what tickles your fancy? Feel free to leave me a comment or send me an email: mailto:1sassychica@gmail.com


I am also looking for guest post bloggers! I love the idea of supporting fellow bloggers and this would be a great way for my sassy readers to get to know you and love you as much as I do! If you wish not to write a post that walks on the wild side and you prefer to share a recipe, story or secret...all are welcome!!

Smooches,
Sassy Chica